Time and Timing

*Time decides who you meet in life, your heart decides who you want in life and your behavior decides who stays in your life*.

I left LL. Not you, me. You thought it was you but it wasn't. You have no doubt come to realize this by now. As the quote above says - your behavior decides who stays in your life...and it did, in your case. Your behavior let you down as it has so many times in the past. Now look who you have ended up with. Funny isn't it that all the decent guys you met either walked out or left you.

Time decided that I met you and if I hadn't been in Florida at the time we probably would have never talked. It was pure chance in a way and a particular moment in time.

My heart decided who I wanted in my life - to quote from above. At that time it was you, but you let me down tremendously.

It was your behavior that determined who didn't stay in your life.

You do choose the wrong destinations at the wrong time of the year don't you...or is it that neither of you can afford more. As to flight delays, we have none of those or any baggage restrictions on our own plane :) By the way you really do look old now and your face is a lot puffier. No, I'm not being rude - just stating a fact. In men those wrinkles are character...in a woman...well...

You visit Lanzarote and take interest in Benidorm. We spend Christmas here in Barbados and spend time in Paris, London, Rome, Milan etc etc. No comparison really. To think I entertained buying a place in Benidorm to humor you. When I did sell up that sh** hole in Denia at least I made a profit from the deal. Incidentally, I still see Hans occasionally when we are there.

I'm sure you convince yourself you made the right decision in not returning but you don't really believe it I'm sure. Then that obese person who is soccer mad. How oh so very boring. Funny isn't it that your perceptions of life and people are almost always entirely wrong...as are your choices. I have invited you to communicate but you have failed through lack of courage, as always. You know how if you ever get over your prejudices, inferiority complex and insecurities.

Taking the opportunity to put the finishing touches to my tenth book and start the eleventh. You know how I like to write. ...and at least mine is literate, grammatically correct and creative.

After Christmas we will stop off in New York and Boston partly on the book front and also to pick up the guys and their wives for the naval re-union in London. I will then take them all to Sandbanks. Our own flight of course and our own pilot and our own jet.


Never like to leave you without a few photos so here you are:

  Sunny Day on the Bay

You Know Who this Is 

 Someone After you (sort of) and before Ash

 The Trip that Speaks for Itself

That Guy and one Grandson

 Fancy some Breakfast?

Guess you have noticed that the man in the hat is in no way obese - taken last month

Ciao donna sciocca